The Dating Game Killer

Because we all know that dating apps have made it so easy to swipe right (or maybe left), it’s easy to think that it’s just as easy to find a relationship. That said, the road to happiness can be long and complicated, and how you find that right person is how you’ll end up feeling about your relationship, not to mention your new roommates. Your personality is a pretty major contributor to your success in the dating game, but you can change the way you come off to people—especially if you want to attract the kind of people you want to be with. Be yourself! People who assume that if you’re a douche, you’re a douche. Keep your filter on. If you’re not talking about your job (and, let’s be honest, you probably should be) or your interests, stop talking about it right there and then. Even if you’re talking to your future self—and trust me, you’re just talking to her, because you’re doing a better job than you are—be careful about revealing too much about yourself. Because if you want to find someone who can handle your unabashed passion for yoga pants, geology, and going to bed by midnight, you need to make it obvious that you’re open-minded and yourself around them. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is being that person who goes out of their way to talk about themselves all the time. You can say, “Oh, my name is Rachel. I am a Chinese-British Columbia girl and I’m one of the luckiest people in the world to have found an awesome community of like-minded people I’ve connected with on this app.” That is fine, but don’t try and cram as much of yourself into that one sentence as possible, because that person will soon become exhausted by your info dump. Focus on what you have in common, and make those things the things you’re talking about, not your hobbies. Dude, can we talk about your face? Having a good face is like having a quality of life. All the time, all the places. Just maintain it! The harder you work at it, the more attractive you’ll look in pictures. And, trust me, when you’re talking to another person—whom you’ll eventually be sitting across from in a restaurant, having dinner, going to a concert, or getting a drink—all eyes will be on them. Don’t be afraid to break
Keeping an open mind: The first step to finding love is to develop a healthy outlook. Sure, you need to be mature and open to the world around you, but it’s important to be open to love too. The advice here will help you find love and maintain your happiness. We can’t always make our partners happy, but we can approach finding a relationship with the attitude that we want to be happy, too. Talking to potentials: It can be intimidating to approach someone new, whether it’s to ask them out, strike up a conversation, or just talk to someone you’re interested in. But our suggestions will help you walk through the process confidently. Finding love: Use your gut: Catching a glimpse of someone’s soul can be a true sign of love. It can reveal something about them that you didn’t expect. On the flip side, it may be the sign that they aren’t the right person for you. But when you first see someone’s eyes, you may feel a spark of something that turns into something you didn’t expect. Sometimes, the truth is right there and you just have to see it. Make sure you’re not letting your emotions cloud your judgement, or you may find that you have to end a good friendship. Doing What You Feel: Treat it like a science experiment: When you’re feeling emotionally overwhelmed, approach it like a scientist. Being open to love can be scary at first because it forces you to do something that you aren’t used to. And sometimes, it’s just a little bit different than we expected it to be. Whether your initial impressions are correct or not, you can’t live your life by what you think the outcome will be. Treat every relationship as if it’s a science experiment. Test your feelings and see where they take you. Taking the journey: Sometimes, you meet someone and you just know. It could be the way they make you laugh or the way you feel around them. Sometimes, it takes a little while for this feeling to emerge, but if you’re waiting for it to happen, you’ll waste a lot of time and probably end up alone. A lot of people approach the journey with low expectations. You may meet your soul mate in a bar, or you may have to take a few steps to get to it. It all depends on you, but know that you will eventually find someone who will be your partner in life

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